![]() ![]() You can behave in any way you like, without consequences for our relationship. “Boundary-less” love says: I love you, no matter what. I choose to be with you because I trust you and know you will never willfully hurt me. I love and accept you, including your flaws and weaknesses. My love for you is not dependent on a performance. “Unconditional Love” says: You can be your authentic self with me. To recognize the differences, we must let these two different kinds of love speak. Meaning by interpreting it to mean that you’re justified in loving your partner no matter how they badly they treat you. It is easy to misconstrue the “Unconditional Love” Unconditional love is healthy, Boundary-less love is not. It is easy to confuse “Unconditional Love” with “Boundary-less Love”, but they are not the same. Above all, because it is a TRUSTING, accepting, secure love, that includes respect for the other’s and your own boundaries, you both know you are in it for the long haul, and you can’t see yourselves ever being with anyone else. You know not to take it personally when your partner is in a bad mood, you encourage him/her to talk about their feelings with the patience and compassion needed to get through it. When you love, and are loved unconditionally, you don’t feel the need to play head games with each other. ![]() That high regard includes your sense of self-worth too, based on the the belief we are all worthy of love. ![]() Unconditional Love is a healthy connection rooted in a fundamentally loving and respectful perspective on human beings. To answer that question we must first ask: what IS “Unconditional Love”? ![]()
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